Emotional Resilience Guide

Grey Rocking Without
Going Numb

A tactical approach to high-conflict co-parenting. Protect your peace by becoming as uninteresting as a grey rock to those seeking an emotional reaction.

The Anatomy of a Boundary

When you stop providing emotional fuel, conflict often spikes briefly (the "Extinction Burst") before dropping as the other party realizes their tactics no longer work.

Long-term Goal

Decrease the frequency of hostile interactions by increasing the predictability of your neutral responses.

The Strategy Hub

Tactical pillars for maintaining distance and clarity.

Click a strategy to view scripts

The Librarian's Picks

In-depth reading to strengthen your legal and emotional position.

Splitting

Eddy & Hunter

Protecting yourself while divorcing someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

View on Amazon

Co-Parenting Handbook

Bonnell & Little

Raising well-adjusted kids through divorce with practical scripts and emotional support.

View on Amazon

The Narcissist's Playbook

Dana Morningstar

Essential tools for identifying and neutralizing manipulation patterns in real-time.

View on Amazon